Tuesday, June 16, 2009

A Sense of What it was Really Like For You

Inspiring Newsletter

re-inspiration for clients and friends of www.InspiringWebCopy.com



an “aperiodical”—to speak when I am moved to speak


issue 43-49, June 2009


Note--the photographs by my father in this issue may not display in your email client. To see them you can go to www.inspiringnewsletter.blogspot.com. Thanks.

Issue 43, Tuesday June 9th

Mozart Makes You Happier

The benefits have often been touted for increasing intelligence*. But can it make you happier too?

After a few minutes of research, I was firmly convinced it can--my memory is not clear now but I think one of the things about it, the Divertimento in E flat, is the almost ludicrous upbeats to the continuing phrases. As I replay it in my head I'm not finding the spot, but I remember being struck by that. It's just not right to be that happy! Maybe it's the viola accompaniment, the repeating pattern. Nope, it is the three up beats in the second theme, and the whole sense of this very silly thing being taken absolutely seriously that seems to reset priorities to a healthy and appropriate lightheartedness.

(Update--later the same week I, normally very self-conscious in public, found myself singing the first movement in the subway station. I never do that with Mahler, occasionally with Brahms, hoping my voice will sound reasonably operatic, but with Mozart it's just not possible to stay self-conscious about one's performance because I'm having too much damn fun.)

--
*I've also read somewhere that research on "the Mozart effect"--in raising intelligence-- was actually inconclusive but had gotten hyped by the popular media. While the Mozart Happiness Effect remains to be validated by further scientific research, it's also pretty obvious if you do a controlled study on yourself for two minutes.



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Issue 44, Wednesday, June 17

A Sense of What It was Really Like for You:
inspiring Interview with Eric Myrvaagnes, photographer

I've grown up with my father's photographs and took it for granted that every father must take such beautiful pictures and see so much in nature. It was a bit surreal to be interviewing him, and it allowed me to see his work again with new eyes. It's also been an honor and privilege to work with him as an un-coaching client, and not only has he learned something new in each conversation we've had, but I've learned something fascinating that has fed my soul. This interview captures a little of what he says when he's made comfortable to speak.

IN: What inspires you to photograph?

Eric Myrvaagnes: Hm. One of the things that interetsed me abut it first was that you cudl point this device at something that you saw that was interesting and be able to remember it later.

Also, my first experience wiht a camera was seeing my older brother, he'd gotten one and was interested in the process, so he was developing his own photos. We didn't have a darkroom, so he got contact sheets and chemicals and trays and worked in the closet, and I remember he would work so long that at the end his leg would have cramped up so much he had to be helped out of there. And I was very intrigued that anything could be so interesting to someone that they would be willing to undergo physical discomfort.

I go to Plum Island and feel a very moving spiritual presence in the patterns of sand and water and light, and these move me really deeply. . .

Then when I was at Greenwood [Music Camp], I borrowed his camera and took snapshots of people. I remember that at first they were self-conscious and put on a face when they saw me with the camera, but soon they got used to seeing it and ignored it, so I was able to get natural expressions.



Untitled (Vermillion Lake, Banff National Park, Alberta, July, 2004)

The clash of the clutter of rocks with the unreal-ly smooth water in this feels so sad and right to me.
--JDM.


Then at Harvard someone suggested I get on the Crimson photo board. I learned more from that than from my classes. But it began to look like the assignments from that would take 40 hours a week and maybe I should start going to at least some of my classes.

A classmate of mine saw my photographs and thought they were pretty good. I was able to sneak into the Kirkland House darkroom after hours, thanks to his expertise at making master keys, so I worked in there. He also encouraged me to work on my landscapes, and introduced me to the photographs of Ansel Adams, Minor White, and Edward Weston. I saw an exhibit of Minor White's at MIT and was so amazed I wrote him a letter. He invited me to take his workshop, so I did. Taking the workshop with Minor White was life-changing. And he validated things I'd already felt to be true but hadn't been able to articulate, and got me to really see, in closer detail. The lessons from Minor White and Paul Capinigro keep coming back, and I begin to understand things now, fifty years later, that sort of went over my head at the time.

IN: What inspires you now?

EM: It's strange, since I started with portraits and have done very little with people since then. Most people do tend to get self-conscious; it's such an effort to get them to look natural. I guess that's what attracted me to rocks, sea, sand, trees, and wilderness, nature never seems to be putting on a face for the camera.

Translating an uplifting experience in words, unless you're very good with words (and most of us are not), the person you're talking to gets that you had a sublime experience, but has no sense of what it was really like for you. This is what painters try to do and photographers try to do.

Things that interest me now--I used to think that content was more important, but I no longer think that, now what's most interesting and compelling to me is how an image is a metaphor--for a feeling or idea not directly to do with the thing itself. This is in my tar drip photographs and Plum Island sand pictures--their not about sand or water, but the interaction of shadow and light in sand and water produce forms that can be very expressive. . .the way tonalities can come together in the moment to produce very expressive images. One thing I learned during the first Minor White workshop was that when forms and shapes and sense of lighting all comes together the scene comes alive--or is living but at the moment everything comes together I'm privileged to be able to experience the life of the scene (trees, water), and this sense of the scene coming alive is a very important thing for me.

Untitled (Newton, late 1990s)

My father knows more about the life-cycle of tar drips than anyone else I've met, and can recognize the "signature" styles of the different road repair crews in Newton.
--JDM

In the context of our lives as a whole, how can photography most nourish people?

One thing that drives the impulse in both serious and amateur photographers is that you experience something that gives you great joy and you want to share it with people. For example sunsets and rainbows, even though millions of pictures of them have been taken, when you're experiencing it it still feels sublime: this one moment is happening. Translating an uplifting experience in words, unless you're very good with words (and most of us are not), the person gets that you had a sublime experience, but has no sense of what it was really like for you. This is what painters try to do and photographers try to do. I go to Plum Island and feel a very moving spiritual presence in the patters of sand and water and light, and these move me really deeply--one of the challenges in photography is to determine what aspects of an image will convey it to someone else? recently I have been getting there. It's taken responses from viewers giving me feedback to know.That kind of sharing can happen, but it doesn't happen automatically by taking a picture at a time when you're out there, that's where skill and experience are necessary. When I'm looking at something mundane or ugly, if I can see beauty and can present it in a way others will see--one way is my tar drips--a number of people have said they have started looking at pavement in an entirely new way, after seeing those photographs. Also graffiti on an abandoned railroad car in Kingston: "I never knew rust could be so beautiful."


Untitled (Plum Island, January, 2006)

Most people are in a rush these days--anything that can encourage people to take some time out to experience something beautiful can be nourishing.

If you could hang an exhibit anywhere, if you had a magic wand, where would you want to hang it?

At a good museum like the MoMA, but partly because people who go to museums are looking for that kind of experience. But on a more mundane level, I like the idea of more exhibitions are the Newton Library, because people who go there are a trained audience and are used to having a comment book and a regular invitation to respond to what you see, and people give feedback.

Is there any last thing you would want to add?

Your style of interviewing encourages the interviewee to come up with a pretty good "artist statement"--it's a good way of getting people to think about what makes people tick. I'm delighted, and I hope this has helped you in your quest.

Thank you for giving the interview, it was a pleasure.



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Issue 45, Thursday, June 18th

They Don't Need to Be Persuaded

My mastermind partner again twisted my head around. I thought I'd already covered the entire idea of the need for my purpose (my gift, what I'm best designed to do) to be operating only in a circumstance when the client wants me to succeed, without opposition). But hearing the same idea come out of his mouth, again, pulled me into a state of feeling how appealing that would be, to be working with someone who didn't need to be persuaded that what you have to offer is of value. It would be so much more pleasurable to be able to put one's energy into doing the work rather than into asking oneself the "what's wrong?" questions of "why is this person not persuaded that what I have to offer is of value?" To be putting one's full attention into being curious and asking questions.

In that way John Dempsey inspired me again.

It's also interesting to note that, in so doing, he persuaded me of something--a return to the belief that this kind of situation could be, that it was possible. If another person wants this, I felt there must be lots of people who want it, and if lots of people want it, then we ought to be able to find those people and work with them. Anyone who appreciates not having to persuade someone of their usefulness will be able to value the idea of not requiring others to do this. But I'm pretty sure this was persuading without an effort to persuade, since we were actually talking about his practice this week, not mine.



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Issue 46: Friday, June 12th

I said my purpose aloud in a room full of people

I told my artists group about my project of interviewing 100 people in 100 days, and it felt great to say this, and to say something about my purpose: I am pure capacity-to-be-inspired, and there is no way I can guarantee that I will be inspired since I don't inspire myself. I depend on you--whoever or whatever else is present--to inspire me, I don't do the inspiring. I may appear really serious and grim even, and yet when something comes along and inspires me I am ready to perceive it, notice what makes it inspiring, what makes it work, and describe this with clarity, specificity, and appreciation of its pleasurability and usefulness.

One of the other artist's had said something that inspired me to talk about this project--what we say in the group is confidential, so I can't talk about her project here unless/until I have her permission, but I want to note that what I say above had just happened, in fact.

The temptation to lie, however, to be polite and please people, is quite strong--"Sure, that was inspiring," I want to say, though not really feeling it. Technically, everything is inspiring--the fact that I have lungs and can breathe is such a miracle, of magic or chance, however you look at it, that I could theoretically appreciate every breath as inspiring. (That's what the word means, even.) But the kinds of things that inspire me in other people seem, to me anyway, far more interesting to talk about than breathing. I see an image of invisible streams of energy moving around in their bodies, in their abdomens, in particular, as somehow connected with inspiration.

I asked all the artists if I could interview them--that should be showing up here soon.


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Issue 47, Saturday, June 13th

What are the Elves' Treasures?

I was rereading The Elves of Lily Hill Farm, about a woman who is contacted by some elves and, with their help, grows many times more grapes in her vineyard with far less pesticide.

I'd remembered the events in this book with a lot of clarity, and the facts, and thought there'd be fairly little that would be new in a rereading. Yet I was totally transformed.

The passage that especially inspired me--the elves are complaining to her about how humans tear up everything in the fields and leave them with no place to store their treasures! It gave me this wonderful feeling of the happy, giddy joy that elves must take in their treasures, and curiosity about what would be a treasure to an elf, a being of nature, how that would differ from what we humans think of as a treasure (gold and money). What can they be burying in their special spots in the earth that could be allowed to grow and multiply if we did less tearing up of that earth? I was smiling as I read.

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Issue 48, Saturday June 13th

My character tells me he's got a story to tell

I recorded myself reading a chapter of my novel, so I'd be able to listen to it and it turned out my character, who is leading a ritual with some people who are not used to ritual, has a story. He, and I, both thought he didn't really have one, that his was less important than another character's. But in listening to my own voice speaking I had the space to feel what was going on as well as think it, and thereby to realize that something is happening in the novel in this chapter more than any other: he is allowing the other characters to expand their reality.

in this chapter, the protagonist leads a ritual and in the course of it he insists that he is a great poet and also that what the heart feels to be true is true. It is precisely by doing something that annoys them, something that is taboo in our culture--to claim that one is a genius--that he gives them permission to admit that they're geniuses also. My analytical brain had said, Nothing happens in this novel, nothing happens in this chapter, I need to fix it. But my intuitive brain saw a larger picture.

Since we all have an intuitive brain, we all have genius--1,000 to 10,000 times the processing speed of the usual brain we see used in our society.



Issue 49: Monday, June 15th

My Client Reminds Me Reality is Real

My client and colleague called and we chatted for a while. She talked about how it was difficult to see reality at times, when we're not in the right "mood" we can project so many things onto what's actually there that we may as well not be looking. She mentioned that the plants on her walk are actually explosions.

She's been re-reading a book I read recently, Summer with Leprechauns, about elementals, and at one point the leprechaun tells a human that one of the things they want from humans most is for humans to believe in their existence--that human disbelief is actually powerful enough to damage them.

The truth is often like a leprechaun, I find, and Kurt and Patricia Wright describe intuitive brain's voice (which always knows the truth) as being like a prairie dog: the minute it sees you coming, it's gone, popped down its hole. That means we need to make it very safe for the truth to show itself before it will show itself; if we're waiting for the truth to prove itself to our analytical brain, we can wait forever and never be satisfied.

My business has taken me in unexpected directions, and one particular project has seemed like it was failing miserably, running into obstacles at every turn. My client pointed out the similarities with the story we'd been reading--how the initial goal of harvesting 100 tons of grapes and becoming famous in the process eventually came to seem small compared to the larger goal of creating healing, and balance with nature. Was my story really as significant as that one? I felt it was--in a way, comparing them is not the point, but the felt sense of their measure is important.


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A Sense of What It was Really Like for You: Eric Myrvaagnes, Photographer; and The Meaningless Journey Revisited--Inspiring Newsletters 43-49

Version Without Pictures--Inspiring Newsletters 43-49

Inspiring Newsletter

re-inspiration for clients and friends of www.InspiringWebCopy.com

an "aperiodical"—to speak when I am moved to speak


issue 43-49, June 2009


Note--the photographs by my father in this issue may not display in
your email client. To see them you can go to
www.inspiringnewsletter.blogspot.com. Thanks.

Issue 43, Tuesday June 9th

Mozart Makes You Happier

The benefits have often been touted for increasing intelligence*. But
can it make you happier too?

After a few minutes of research, I was firmly convinced it can--my
memory is not clear now but I think one of the things about it, the
Divertimento in E flat, is the almost ludicrous upbeats to the
continuing phrases. As I replay it in my head I'm not finding the
spot, but I remember being struck by that. It's just not right to be
that happy! Maybe it's the viola accompaniment, the repeating pattern.
Nope, it is the three up beats in the second theme, and the whole
sense of this very silly thing being taken absolutely seriously that
seems to reset priorities to a healthy and appropriate lightheartedness.

(Update--later the same week I, normally very self-conscious in public,
found myself singing the first movement in the subway station. I never
do that with Mahler, occasionally with Brahms, hoping my voice will
sound reasonably operatic, but with Mozart it's just not possible to
stay self-conscious about one's performance because I'm having too much
damn fun.)

--
*I've also read somewhere that research on "the Mozart effect"--in
raising intelligence-- was actually inconclusive but had gotten hyped
by the popular media. While the Mozart Happiness Effect remains to be
validated by further scientific research, it's also pretty obvious if
you do a controlled study on yourself for two minutes.

-----------------------------------------

Issue 44, Wednesday, June 17

A Sense of What It was Really Like for You:
inspiring Interview with Eric Myrvaagnes, photographer

I've grown up with my father's photographs and took it for granted that
every father must take such beautiful pictures and see so much in
nature. It was a bit surreal to be interviewing him, and it allowed me
to see his work again with new eyes. It's also been an honor and
privilege to work with him as an un-coaching client, and not only has
he learned something new in each conversation we've had, but I've
learned something fascinating that has fed my soul. This interview
captures a little of what he says when he's made comfortable to speak.

IN: What inspires you to photograph?

Eric Myrvaagnes: Hm. One of the things that interetsed me abut it
first was that you cudl point this device at something that you saw
that was interesting and be able to remember it later.

Also, my first experience wiht a camera was seeing my older brother,
he'd gotten one and was interested in the process, so he was developing
his own photos. We didn't have a darkroom, so he got contact sheets
and chemicals and trays and worked in the closet, and I remember he
would work so long that at the end his leg would have cramped up so
much he had to be helped out of there. And I was very intrigued that
anything could be so interesting to someone that they would be willing
to undergo physical discomfort.

I go to Plum Island and feel a very moving spiritual presence in the
patterns of sand and water and light, and these move me really deeply.
. .

Then when I was at Greenwood [Music Camp], I borrowed his camera and
took snapshots of people. I remember that at first they were
self-conscious and put on a face when they saw me with the camera, but
soon they got used to seeing it and ignored it, so I was able to get
natural expressions.


[go to www.inspiringnewsletter.blogspot.com to see picture]

Untitled (Vermillion Lake, Banff National Park, Alberta, July, 2004)

The clash of the clutter of rocks with the unreal-ly smooth water in
this feels so sad and right to me.
--JDM.


Then at Harvard someone suggested I get on the Crimson photo board. I
learned more from that than from my classes. But it began to look like
the assignments from that would take 40 hours a week and maybe I should
start going to at least some of my classes.

A classmate of mine saw my photographs and thought they were pretty
good. I was able to sneak into the Kirkland House darkroom after
hours, thanks to his expertise at making master keys, so I worked in
there. He also encouraged me to work on my landscapes, and introduced
me to the photographs of Ansel Adams, Minor White, and Edward Weston.
I saw an exhibit of Minor White's at MIT and was so amazed I wrote him
a letter. He invited me to take his workshop, so I did. Taking the
workshop with Minor White was life-changing. And he validated things
I'd already felt to be true but hadn't been able to articulate, and got
me to really see, in closer detail. The lessons from Minor White and
Paul Capinigro keep coming back, and I begin to understand things now,
fifty years later, that sort of went over my head at the time.

IN: What inspires you now?

EM: It's strange, since I started with portraits and have done very
little with people since then. Most people do tend to get
self-conscious; it's such an effort to get them to look natural. I
guess that's what attracted me to rocks, sea, sand, trees, and
wilderness, nature never seems to be putting on a face for the camera.

Translating an uplifting experience in words, unless you're very good
with words (and most of us are not), the person you're talking to gets
that you had a sublime experience, but has no sense of what it was
really like for you. This is what painters try to do and photographers
try to do.

Things that interest me now--I used to think that content was more
important, but I no longer think that, now what's most interesting and
compelling to me is how an image is a metaphor--for a feeling or idea
not directly to do with the thing itself. This is in my tar drip
photographs and Plum Island sand pictures--their not about sand or
water, but the interaction of shadow and light in sand and water
produce forms that can be very expressive. . .the way tonalities can
come together in the moment to produce very expressive images. One
thing I learned during the first Minor White workshop was that when
forms and shapes and sense of lighting all comes together the scene
comes alive--or is living but at the moment everything comes together
I'm privileged to be able to experience the life of the scene (trees,
water), and this sense of the scene coming alive is a very important
thing for me.
[go to www.inspiringnewsletter.blogspot.com to see picture]

Untitled (Newton, late 1990s)

My father knows more about the life-cycle of tar drips than anyone else
I've met, and can recognize the "signature" styles of the different
road repair crews in Newton.
--JDM

In the context of our lives as a whole, how can photography most
nourish people?

One thing that drives the impulse in both serious and amateur
photographers is that you experience something that gives you great joy
and you want to share it with people. For example sunsets and
rainbows, even though millions of pictures of them have been taken,
when you're experiencing it it still feels sublime: this one moment is
happening. Translating an uplifting experience in words, unless you're
very good with words (and most of us are not), the person gets that you
had a sublime experience, but has no sense of what it was really like
for you. This is what painters try to do and photographers try to do.
I go to Plum Island and feel a very moving spiritual presence in the
patters of sand and water and light, and these move me really
deeply--one of the challenges in photography is to determine what
aspects of an image will convey it to someone else? recently I have
been getting there. It's taken responses from viewers giving me
feedback to know.That kind of sharing can happen, but it doesn't happen
automatically by taking a picture at a time when you're out there,
that's where skill and experience are necessary. When I'm looking at
something mundane or ugly, if I can see beauty and can present it in a
way others will see--one way is my tar drips--a number of people have
said they have started looking at pavement in an entirely new way,
after seeing those photographs. Also graffiti on an abandoned railroad
car in Kingston: "I never knew rust could be so beautiful."

[go to www.inspiringnewsletter.blogspot.com to see picture]

Untitled (Plum Island, January, 2006)

Most people are in a rush these days--anything that can encourage
people to take some time out to experience something beautiful can be
nourishing.

If you could hang an exhibit anywhere, if you had a magic wand, where
would you want to hang it?

At a good museum like the MoMA, but partly because people who go to
museums are looking for that kind of experience. But on a more mundane
level, I like the idea of more exhibitions are the Newton Library,
because people who go there are a trained audience and are used to
having a comment book and a regular invitation to respond to what you
see, and people give feedback.

Is there any last thing you would want to add?

Your style of interviewing encourages the interviewee to come up with a
pretty good "artist statement"--it's a good way of getting people to
think about what makes people tick. I'm delighted, and I hope this has
helped you in your quest.

Thank you for giving the interview, it was a pleasure.

-----------------------------------------

Issue 45, Thursday, June 18th

They Don't Need to Be Persuaded

My mastermind partner again twisted my head around. I thought I'd
already covered the entire idea of the need for my purpose (my gift,
what I'm best designed to do) to be operating only in a circumstance
when the client wants me to succeed, without opposition). But hearing
the same idea come out of his mouth, again, pulled me into a state of
feeling how appealing that would be, to be working with someone who
didn't need to be persuaded that what you have to offer is of value.
It would be so much more pleasurable to be able to put one's energy
into doing the work rather than into asking oneself the "what's wrong?"
questions of "why is this person not persuaded that what I have to
offer is of value?" To be putting one's full attention into being
curious and asking questions.

In that way John Dempsey inspired me again.

It's also interesting to note that, in so doing, he persuaded me of
something--a return to the belief that this kind of situation could be,
that it was possible. If another person wants this, I felt there must
be lots of people who want it, and if lots of people want it, then we
ought to be able to find those people and work with them. Anyone who
appreciates not having to persuade someone of their usefulness will be
able to value the idea of not requiring others to do this. But I'm
pretty sure this was persuading without an effort to persuade, since we
were actually talking about his practice this week, not mine.

-----------------------------------------

Issue 46: Friday, June 12th

I said my purpose aloud in a room full of people

I told my artists group about my project of interviewing 100 people in
100 days, and it felt great to say this, and to say something about my
purpose: I am pure capacity-to-be-inspired, and there is no way I can
guarantee that I will be inspired since I don't inspire myself. I
depend on you--whoever or whatever else is present--to inspire me, I
don't do the inspiring. I may appear really serious and grim even, and
yet when something comes along and inspires me I am ready to perceive
it, notice what makes it inspiring, what makes it work, and describe
this with clarity, specificity, and appreciation of its pleasurability
and usefulness.

One of the other artist's had said something that inspired me to talk
about this project--what we say in the group is confidential, so I
can't talk about her project here unless/until I have her permission,
but I want to note that what I say above had just happened, in fact.

The temptation to lie, however, to be polite and please people, is
quite strong--"Sure, that was inspiring," I want to say, though not
really feeling it. Technically, everything is inspiring--the fact that
I have lungs and can breathe is such a miracle, of magic or chance,
however you look at it, that I could theoretically appreciate every
breath as inspiring. (That's what the word means, even.) But the
kinds of things that inspire me in other people seem, to me anyway, far
more interesting to talk about than breathing. I see an image of
invisible streams of energy moving around in their bodies, in their
abdomens, in particular, as somehow connected with inspiration.

I asked all the artists if I could interview them--that should be
showing up here soon.


-----------------------------------------

Issue 47, Saturday, June 13th

What are the Elves' Treasures?

I was rereading The Elves of Lily Hill Farm, about a woman who is
contacted by some elves and, with their help, grows many times more
grapes in her vineyard with far less pesticide.

I'd remembered the events in this book with a lot of clarity, and the
facts, and thought there'd be fairly little that would be new in a
rereading. Yet I was totally transformed.

The passage that especially inspired me--the elves are complaining to
her about how humans tear up everything in the fields and leave them
with no place to store their treasures! It gave me this wonderful
feeling of the happy, giddy joy that elves must take in their
treasures, and curiosity about what would be a treasure to an elf, a
being of nature, how that would differ from what we humans think of as
a treasure (gold and money). What can they be burying in their special
spots in the earth that could be allowed to grow and multiply if we did
less tearing up of that earth? I was smiling as I read.

-----------------------------------------

Issue 48, Saturday June 13th

My character tells me he's got a story to tell

I recorded myself reading a chapter of my novel, so I'd be able to
listen to it and it turned out my character, who is leading a ritual
with some people who are not used to ritual, has a story. He, and I,
both thought he didn't really have one, that his was less important
than another character's. But in listening to my own voice speaking I
had the space to feel what was going on as well as think it, and
thereby to realize that something is happening in the novel in this
chapter more than any other: he is allowing the other characters to
expand their reality.

in this chapter, the protagonist leads a ritual and in the course of it
he insists that he is a great poet and also that what the heart feels
to be true is true. It is precisely by doing something that annoys
them, something that is taboo in our culture--to claim that one is a
genius--that he gives them permission to admit that they're geniuses
also. My analytical brain had said, Nothing happens in this novel,
nothing happens in this chapter, I need to fix it. But my intuitive
brain saw a larger picture.

Since we all have an intuitive brain, we all have genius--1,000 to
10,000 times the processing speed of the usual brain we see used in our
society.

Issue 49: Monday, June 15th

My Client Reminds Me Reality is Real

My client and colleague called and we chatted for a while. She talked
about how it was difficult to see reality at times, when we're not in
the right "mood" we can project so many things onto what's actually
there that we may as well not be looking. She mentioned that the
plants on her walk are actually explosions.

She's been re-reading a book I read recently, Summer with Leprechauns,
about elementals, and at one point the leprechaun tells a human that
one of the things they want from humans most is for humans to believe
in their existence--that human disbelief is actually powerful enough to
damage them.

The truth is often like a leprechaun, I find, and Kurt and Patricia
Wright describe intuitive brain's voice (which always knows the truth)
as being like a prairie dog: the minute it sees you coming, it's gone,
popped down its hole. That means we need to make it very safe for the
truth to show itself before it will show itself; if we're waiting for
the truth to prove itself to our analytical brain, we can wait forever
and never be satisfied.

My business has taken me in unexpected directions, and one particular
project has seemed like it was failing miserably, running into
obstacles at every turn. My client pointed out the similarities with
the story we'd been reading--how the initial goal of harvesting 100
tons of grapes and becoming famous in the process eventually came to
seem small compared to the larger goal of creating healing, and balance
with nature. Was my story really as significant as that one? I felt
it was--in a way, comparing them is not the point, but the felt sense
of their measure is important.


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A Sense of What It was Really Like for You: Eric Myrvaagnes, Photographer; and The Meaningless Journey Revisited--Inspiring Newsletters 43-49

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issue 43-49, June 2009


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Issue 43, Tuesday June 9th

Mozart Makes You Happier

The benefits have often been touted for increasing intelligence*. But
can it make you happier too?

After a few minutes of research, I was firmly convinced it can--my
memory is not clear now but I think one of the things about it, the
Divertimento in E flat, is the almost ludicrous upbeats to the
continuing phrases. As I replay it in my head I'm not finding the
spot, but I remember being struck by that. It's just not right to be
that happy! Maybe it's the viola accompaniment, the repeating pattern.
Nope, it is the three up beats in the second theme, and the whole
sense of this very silly thing being taken absolutely seriously that
seems to reset priorities to a healthy and appropriate lightheartedness.

(Update--later the same week I, normally very self-conscious in public,
found myself singing the first movement in the subway station. I never
do that with Mahler, occasionally with Brahms, hoping my voice will
sound reasonably operatic, but with Mozart it's just not possible to
stay self-conscious about one's performance because I'm having too much
damn fun.)

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*I've also read somewhere that research on "the Mozart effect"--in
raising intelligence-- was actually inconclusive but had gotten hyped
by the popular media. While the Mozart Happiness Effect remains to be
validated by further scientific research, it's also pretty obvious if
you do a controlled study on yourself for two minutes.

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Issue 44, Wednesday, June 17

A Sense of What It was Really Like for You:
inspiring Interview with Eric Myrvaagnes, photographer

I've grown up with my father's photographs and took it for granted that
every father must take such beautiful pictures and see so much in
nature. It was a bit surreal to be interviewing him, and it allowed me
to see his work again with new eyes. It's also been an honor and
privilege to work with him as an un-coaching client, and not only has
he learned something new in each conversation we've had, but I've
learned something fascinating that has fed my soul. This interview
captures a little of what he says when he's made comfortable to speak.

IN: What inspires you to photograph?

Eric Myrvaagnes: Hm. One of the things that interetsed me abut it
first was that you cudl point this device at something that you saw
that was interesting and be able to remember it later.

Also, my first experience wiht a camera was seeing my older brother,
he'd gotten one and was interested in the process, so he was developing
his own photos. We didn't have a darkroom, so he got contact sheets
and chemicals and trays and worked in the closet, and I remember he
would work so long that at the end his leg would have cramped up so
much he had to be helped out of there. And I was very intrigued that
anything could be so interesting to someone that they would be willing
to undergo physical discomfort.

I go to Plum Island and feel a very moving spiritual presence in the
patterns of sand and water and light, and these move me really deeply.
. .

Then when I was at Greenwood [Music Camp], I borrowed his camera and
took snapshots of people. I remember that at first they were
self-conscious and put on a face when they saw me with the camera, but
soon they got used to seeing it and ignored it, so I was able to get
natural expressions.

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

A Single Question Raises a Bottom Line -- Issue 36

Issue 36


Tuesday, June 2nd

A Single Question Raises a Bottom Line

On my way back from my walk along the Hudson today, I wondered, What
would I do if I really let myself do what I was guided to do in my
business, as I support others in doing?

Well, that question felt too overwhelming, and too nonspecific; I could
go into a completely formless state if I asked that, and be entirely
impractical.

But then I wondered, What would I do if I let myself do what I was
guided to do, by inspiration, for just fifteen minutes?

A very clear answer: I would scoop my chest into the sand of Plum
Island in the North Shore of Massachusetts, my home state, and I would
feel palpably the darkness and the coldness of the wide water in front
of me beyond the edge of the hot and bright sand, and I would feel
gratefully the sand rubbing against the skin of my chest.

This scooping motion felt very important, and the fact that Plum Island
is a place that's very sacred to my father--he goes there every year to
photograph--and I had a strong sense of rightness to this.

But, of course, it wasn't practical either.

However, the next best thing was fairly practical--to write about this, which felt right also, and share the steady sun on the hot sand with
this newsletter mailing list.

There was another immediate, positive result of asking myself this
question--that was that I felt more palpably than I have in a while the
presence of the salt water of the Hudson, which is right near where I
live. I walk by it all the time, yet I almost never have felt able to
enjoy it, as if by becoming everyday it were required to become bland.
What's the point in living in a very beautiful and expensive
neighborhood if I don't enjoy it? It raises my happiness bottom line to
enjoy that salt water.

This is where most newsletters will say, Take fifteen minutes to let
yourself be guided in your business today. But I'm not saying that;
maybe taking the conceptual trip of doing so is more effective (by
simply reading this), or maybe what you're guided to do is something
other than taking fifteen minutes to focus specifically on doing what
you're guided to do. All I'll say is it may be a question worth asking
yourself, and if you do so I have a sense that it will a) not be the
end of you/your business and b) probably produce a good or even
excellent result. If you feel moved to take it, I support you in
taking the risk.

Monday, June 01, 2009

In the future, you'll call the tele-marketer; In Memoriam Mr. Mitchell -- Inspiring Newsletters #30-35

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Issue 30


Wednesday, May 27th

My Garden Recharges Me

I started a garden on the land around my community house here in
Yonkers, on soil that has been bare, but for a few straggling weeds,.
and badly erodes every time it rains, and has resisted making a lawn
multiple times.
Recently I'd been finding I was rather resentful that other people
hadn't been helping with it. I knew, intellectually, of course, that
no one owes me to work on the garden, and that other people have less
of an interest in bettering the relationship with the ecosystem than I
have. That this happens not to appeal to them as strongly as it does
to me. I had accepted this in theory, but hadn't quite felt that way.
Especially since I felt that others gave a sense of direction to the
garden that I on my own lacked--I didn't feel motivated to build the
third bed since no one wanted to plant more, and didn't want to finish
filling in between the bricks of the second bed. I was tired, and
didn't have the surplus to do any more work on it.
My friend told me that the garden felt lonely to her, and that the bed
seemed to be asking to be visited more often. So I felt justified in
my resentment, and vindicated! All the people in my house need to do
is visit the damn thing, and it'll have better energy. How hard is
that? But still, what could I do to get them to visit the garden?
Nothing, probably.
Well, today I found a solution, which is so simple it really didn't
take a genius to come up with it, yet somehow had never occurred to me:
to visit the garden. Just sit there, without doing any gardening. Let
the garden nurture me.
Well, the garden inspired me today. I had my breakfast sitting next
to it. It said to me, It's plenty to just sit here and be next to me.
It gave me a feeling of being near a lake I used to visit with my
family in childhood, Echo Lake in Maine, a wide peacefulness, a
harmony, and soon it had me smiling ear to ear.

Note--what was inspiring and replenishing was three things (among
others):
--I was not doing any gardening, just sitting there
--the bird singing in the trees, a Baltimore oriole, which I'd been
hearing all day outside the window, turned from being a stressful
distraction to a pleasurable experience, since in fact I did if I were
honest have enough time to enjoy hearing it, and my sense of time
pressure was manufactured
--the energies from nature, from the earth, are inherently beneficial,
even when the earth has been compromised and eroded, and as I looked at
a mustard plant that was growing outside the garden, and a few stray
clumps of grass in the middle of the bare soil, I began to see them as
beautiful, feel them as heroic acts of nature to restore this soil to
fertility, rather than as the chaotic "weeds" I had projected
previously.

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Issue 31


Thursday, May 29th

Pre-verbal Beliefs that Shape Our Reality

John Dempsey, my mastermind partner, was wondering about which beliefs
were creating his perceived reality, and which ones he would want to
change.  In particular, he was wondering about beliefs that were
preverbal, that had been formed before he had words and that might be
impossible to articulate in words.  If these wordless beliefs could not
be articulated, then how could they be brought to light and
relinquished?  I found myself completely fascinated at the question of
what belief is there that could be absoltuely impossible to put into
words.  I'm always interested in what can't be put in words--poetry,
feelings--and this especially.  I had the strong sense that  there was
a way, and that the word would come out soon, but in a form that
neither he nor I expected, in a poetic and living language that would
surprise both of us and have us both feel awed and dumbstruck.  What
beliefs do you have that were formed before you could speak? what of
them can you put in words? is there an image, a color, a shape, a
memory of a night-dream?


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Issue 33


Saturday, May 30th

Dark Grass Blades in the Lenoir Preserve, Waving

The dark blades of grass, dark because they were in the shadow of the
tree, waving in front of the lighter blades in the sun, were made more
visible by means of this contrast. This fact allowed me to feel
particularly inspired with awe--those grass stalks waving slightly in
the wind, not rushing, not getting anywhere, not trying to sell
themselves.


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Issue 34


Sunday, May 31st

In Memoriam Mr. Mitchell

Another of my high school teachers died this week.

Robert Mitchell--Mr. Mitchell to us--was more than a Latin teacher. He
knew 22 languages, he gave us a living sense of the historical context
for the texts we studied (or failed to study), and he managed to help
us understand, or begin to, just how much of our world was an illusion,
how our understanding of the ancient world was hopelessly distorted by
the influence of the surroundings of modernism.

What inspired me about him most was his passion for the brother
Gracchus. Tiberius and Gaius both attempted to reform Roman society
and put public support back into farming rather than into war and
wasteful luxury. They were both murdered for what they did. I
remember one day a classmate asked, "Why did they do that? what was in
it for them?"

Mr. Mitchell, who was no pansy--he ran 6 miles every day and swam
another 3--had this to say in reply:

"They just cared. Some people do."

"No, nobody just cares, everybody is in it for some angle," said my
classmate. But she sounded uncertain.

Vale, Magister Mitchel. Now you can be with your favorite orators and
writers, with Cicero and Herodatus, and with the Gracchi.

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Issue 35

Monday, June 1

In the future, you'll call the tele-marketer

The thing that inspired me so much today was in my work with the
intuitive, horse-brain-like intelligence of nature itself, and the
spirit of partnership and mutual aid that exists between myself and one
of my colleagues.

We worked together today, and I was trying to come up with a definition
of marketing in the holistic paradigm, when it occurred to me that I
needed to define marketing in the old paradigm first. Then I got the
sense I should contrast the new to the old in each specific element.

I started with sales calls: And that's when it hit me--in the future,
the sales call will
--be done with primary attention on serving the customer, not on
selling any particular product
--be done with a salesperson who works not for one particular company
but for one particular purpose--e.g., to sell the best solar energy
system for the customer's needs
--honor the customer's own timing
--not sell the customer anything she/he doesn't need
--and be made at least 50% of the time by the customer--that is, the
customer calls the salesperson, and has the opportunity to choose to
learn more about the product. There is no element of transgressing on
the customer's boundaries--the sales call is not only consensual but
even sought after. What a vision for the future of commerce in our
society! I would never have come up with this alone!

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